"This work forced me to confront patterns I couldn't see on my own. It changed how I lead my life and relationships."
— Coaching Client
Every engagement starts the same way. An honest assessment. A clear diagnosis. A direct path forward.
For Men
You were assigned the blame for a system you did not create. You have been passive when you should have led. That ends here. Coaching for men escaping toxic systems, overcoming passivity, and reclaiming ground.
Men's Coaching →For Couples
Weekly therapy has not worked. The same fight has been on repeat for years. Gottman-trained. 35,000+ clinical hours. For couples who are done talking and ready to change.
Couples in Crisis →Individual
The gaslighting convinced you that you were the problem. The manipulation made you doubt your own mind. You are not broken. You have been systematically disoriented. In relationships or the church.
Escape Coaching →You've been told you're the problem. You've been assigned blame for dysfunction you didn't create. You've spent years trying to figure out why nothing you do is ever enough.
Maybe you're recovering from a narcissistic parent, a manipulative ex, or a family system that made you the scapegoat. Maybe you've lost your sense of direction and don't know who you are anymore.
Maybe your success at work is masking chaos in your personal life. Maybe you've been so busy keeping the peace that you've lost yourself in the process.
You're not crazy. You've been gaslit. And you've surrendered ground through passivity that you're now ready to reclaim.
Proprietary System
A proprietary assessment and diagnostic system that uncovers the patterns most men never identify on their own.
Breaking free from manipulation, narcissistic abuse, scapegoating, and generational dysfunction.
Learning to say no, enforcing limits with manipulative people, and protecting what matters.
Rebuilding who you are after abuse, betrayal, or years of being told you're the problem.
Reclaiming your role in your family, your work, and your life. Leading with strength.
Being the dad your kids need. Breaking cycles. Building legacy.
Your body is the foundation. Training, nutrition, and health for mental clarity.
Free Tool
A personalized workout and nutrition plan built for your goals, your body, and your life.
Answer a few questions. Get a custom PDF with your training program, nutrition targets, and the mindset work to back it up. Free. No fluff.
Get Your Free Blueprint →Identified the family system dynamics. Set boundaries for the first time. Cut contact with three toxic family members. Wife says he's "finally present."
Stopped apologizing for having opinions. Started leading at work and home. Lost 30 pounds. Marriage transformed.
Recognized decades of people-pleasing. Built boundaries with manipulative ex. Kids now have a father who shows up.
Your Coach
Husband. Father. Man who's been through the fire.
I didn't become a coach because I had it figured out. I became one because I didn't. 35,000+ clinical hours. Doctorate in Christian Counseling. Gottman trained.
But the real credential is surviving what I've survived and coming out the other side.
My Full Story →You want validation, not change.
You want comfort over confrontation.
You expect results without effort.
You're looking for a friend, not a coach.
Take the first step. We will determine the right path for you.
Get StartedLimited availability. Not all applicants accepted.
If you are in crisis: 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) | 911 for emergencies