A Story from Dr. Hines
A man came into my office one day, visibly weighed down by the stress in his marriage. He told me, “My wife says everything is my fault—this time because I bought something on Facebook Marketplace. But honestly, I feel like it’s not just about that.” He shared that over 20 years of marriage, he had struggled to find any real fault in her. She was organized, kind, and a great mother, but every disagreement seemed to circle back to mistakes he made in the past. “It’s like she’s keeping a scorecard I didn’t even know existed,” he said with frustration.

As we unpacked the situation, it became clear that the cycle of blame and unresolved resentment wasn’t just his burden—it was something both of them were carrying. While he felt attacked and unheard, his wife may have been struggling with her own unmet needs or unresolved pain that hadn’t been addressed. I explained to him that the goal wasn’t to “take sides” but to help both of them break the unhealthy patterns keeping them stuck.

We started with him, building his emotional resilience, teaching him how to set boundaries, and helping him process his own feelings of frustration. At the same time, I guided him on how to communicate with his wife in a way that wasn’t defensive but instead invited her into a deeper connection. Over time, he began to see that while he couldn’t change her reactions, he could change how he responded.

Eventually, his wife joined the sessions. She told me she’d been carrying her own pain from their early years of marriage, and each argument felt like a chance to bring it to the surface. We worked on building trust and creating a space where they could both express themselves without fear of judgment. Together, they learned to focus not on “who was right or wrong” but on how to move forward as a team.

Storytelling That Resonates
This is just one of many stories where real-life challenges were met with real solutions. Through relatable illustrations and practical lessons, I guide clients to uncover the root causes of their struggles while equipping them with tools to transform their relationships and lives.

Holistic Approach
I take a balanced approach to growth, addressing emotional, mental, and physical health. Whether you’re seeking clarity in your marriage, overcoming stress, or rebuilding confidence, you’ll find a path forward that integrates every part of your well-being.

Tailored Guidance
Every session is designed to meet you where you are. Whether you come alone or with your spouse, the focus is on understanding both perspectives and fostering growth for everyone involved. This isn’t about assigning blame—it’s about creating lasting solutions and stronger relationships.