Welcome to Dr. Hines Inc.
Your Marriage Is Either Growing or Dying. There's No Neutral.
Marriage Intensives & Men's Coaching | Broken Arrow, Oklahoma
Most couples wait six years before getting help. By then, resentment has calcified. Patterns are entrenched. Weekly therapy becomes damage control instead of transformation.
If you're ready to stop managing the decline and start rebuilding, you're in the right place.
WHO I AM
Dr. Johnathan Hines, DCC
Body: 35,000+ clinical hours. Gottman Method trained. In practice since 2007.
I work with couples whose marriages are hanging by a thread - and men who are ready to break free from toxic family systems they didn't create.
This isn't gentle therapy that makes you feel good while nothing changes. This is focused, intensive work that produces results.
If you want someone to validate you, I'm not your guy. If you want someone to help you transform, let's talk.
WHAT WE OFFER
Services
Service 1: Marriage Intensives
Two to three focused days that accomplish what months of weekly therapy cannot. For couples in crisis who are serious about transformation - not just conversation.
No distractions. No waiting a week between breakthroughs. Just immersive, uninterrupted work on the relationship that matters most.
Service 2: Couples Sessions
Ongoing support for marriages at any stage. Whether you're trying to prevent problems or work through existing ones, these sessions build communication, connection, and trust.
Both of you in the room. Both of you doing the work.
Service 3: Men's Coaching
For men trapped in toxic family dynamics, recovering from manipulation, or rebuilding after everything fell apart.
You're not the scapegoat. You're not crazy. And you don't have to keep playing a role you were designed to lose.
Service 4: Free Discovery Call
Not sure where to start? Let's talk. No pressure, no pitch - just an honest conversation about what you're facing and whether I can help.
45 minutes. Virtual. Free.
Is This For You?
This is for you if:
- Your marriage is in crisis and weekly therapy hasn't worked
- You're tired of having the same fight for the tenth year in a row
- You're the family scapegoat and you're done playing that role
- You're a leader whose success at work is masking chaos at home
- You want transformation, not just someone to talk to
- You're willing to look at yourself as honestly as you look at your spouse
This is NOT for you if:
- You want a referee to declare you the winner
- You're looking for validation that everything is your spouse's fault
- You want a quick fix without doing real work
- You're not willing to be challenged or uncomfortable
- You think the problem is 100% someone else
If the second list describes you, we're not a good fit. No hard feelings.
If the first list made you lean in
THE REAL TALK
A Word Before You Book
I need to be honest with you.
Not every marriage can be saved. Some shouldn't be.
But here's what I've learned in 35,000 hours: most marriages that fail didn't have to. They failed because couples waited too long, chose the wrong help, or weren't willing to do the real work.
If both of you are willing - genuinely willing - transformation is possible. I've watched couples on the edge of divorce fall back in love. I've seen men who were ready to give up become the husbands they always wanted to be.
But it takes work. It takes honesty. And it takes someone willing to guide you through the hard parts without letting you stay comfortable.
If you're ready, I'm ready.
Resources for Growth
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You're Not Crazy. You're the Scapegoat.
You're not crazy. You're the scapegoat. After 35,000 clinical hours, I've watched this pattern destroy good men who were never the problem they were told they were. Here's how to...
You're Not Crazy. You're the Scapegoat.
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Digital Boundaries in a Scrolling World: Faith-...
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