Escape Coaching

You Are Not Crazy.
You Have Been in a Dark Room.

Someone turned off the lights and rearranged the furniture. Then they blamed you for stumbling. Individual coaching for escaping narcissistic abuse, manipulation, and coercive control in relationships and the church.

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You Have Been Told You Are the Problem

Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too difficult. You have been trained to question your own perception until you stopped trusting yourself entirely.

Maybe it was a spouse. Maybe it was a parent. Maybe it was a pastor or a church leadership structure that used spiritual authority as a tool of control. Maybe it was an entire family system that assigned you a role you never chose.

The gaslighting was so gradual you did not see it happening. The isolation was so systematic you thought you chose it. The spiritual manipulation was so wrapped in Scripture that questioning it felt like questioning God.

You did not choose this. Someone did this to you. And now you need someone who can see what happened, name it, and show you the door out.

What We Work On

Pattern Identification

Naming the manipulation tactics that were used against you. Gaslighting, love bombing, DARVO, hoovering, spiritual abuse. Once you see the pattern, it loses its power.

Boundaries + Safety

Building a boundary framework that holds under pressure. Safety planning for high-conflict exits. Practical tools, not theory.

Identity Recovery

After years of being told who you are, the hardest question is: who were you before they got to you? We rebuild from there.

Trauma Bonding

Understanding why leaving feels impossible. Why you keep going back. It is not weakness. It is neurochemistry. And it can be broken.

Spiritual Abuse Recovery

When manipulation comes wrapped in Scripture, it is harder to name. We separate genuine faith from weaponized religion and help you reclaim both.

System Mapping

Manipulation rarely comes from one person. We map the entire system: the enablers, the flying monkeys, the silent bystanders, and the one pulling the strings.

Breaking Free from the Jezebel Spirit by Dr. Johnathan Hines

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The Framework

Breaking Free from the Jezebel Spirit

This coaching is built on the same framework as Dr. Hines' book: identifying and escaping manipulation in relationships and the church. With biblical depth and clinical precision.

17 years studying how manipulators operate across families, churches, and relational systems. Three distinct predator types identified. Escape protocols developed and tested with real clients.

This is not generic self-help. This is someone who understands the machine you have been trapped inside and knows exactly how it works.

35K+

Clinical Hours

17+

Years

DCC

Doctoral Level

The Package

Individual Escape Coaching

$1,800

6 Sessions

Manipulation pattern assessment

6 coaching sessions (60-90 min each)

Boundary framework + safety planning

Direct access between sessions

Identity recovery roadmap

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Not sure where to start?

Book a 90-minute diagnostic session for $300. If you move to the full package, it counts toward your total.

This Is for You If

You have been in a relationship where you constantly question your own reality. You walk on eggshells and cannot explain why. You have been isolated from friends and family and are not sure how it happened. You feel trapped but guilty for wanting to leave. You know something is deeply wrong but everyone around you says it is fine. You have experienced spiritual manipulation where Scripture or church authority was used to control you.

This Is NOT for You If

You want someone to validate your anger without doing the work. You expect coaching to be a comfortable conversation. You are looking for permission to stay stuck. This work requires honesty, and honesty is not always comfortable.

You Are Not Crazy.You Have Been in a Dark Room.