✓ Gottman Method Level 1 Certified

The distance between you
has a name.

Most couples come in talking about communication. That is almost never the real issue. Dr. Hines has nearly two decades of experience and Gottman Method training. He will find the real issue in the first session.

Book a Clarity Session → Call (918) 212-5330

Dr. Johnathan Hines, DCC · Gottman Level 1 · Virtual Nationwide · Est. 2007

nearly two decades+ Coaching Hours Gottman Level 1 Certified Doctorate in Christian Counseling NCCA Professional Clinical Member 4.9 Stars on Google
Who This Is For

You are not broken.
You are speaking two different languages.

Most couples programs fail because they treat the symptoms and never touch the system underneath. Dr. Hines identifies the actual patterns driving the conflict — not just what you fight about, but why it keeps happening, and what it reveals about each of you.

You might be here if
You have the same fight every two weeks. Different topic, same outcome. Nobody wins and nothing changes.
You might be here if
One of you shuts down and the other escalates. You have been in this pattern so long you do not remember what it felt like before it started.
You might be here if
There was a betrayal. Trust was broken. You are still together but the room is different now and you do not know how to get back.
You might be here if
You function fine as parents and roommates. You have built a life together. But the marriage part has quietly gone missing.
The Process

Both of you get assessed.
Then we sit down together.

Dr. Hines does not walk into your marriage blind. Before you are ever in the same room, he assesses each of you and meets each of you alone.

01
Both Spouses Assessed
Each spouse completes the Stronghold Assessment independently. Dr. Hines reviews both before you meet. He already knows where the pressure is.
02
A Solo Session Each
Each spouse gets a private 70-minute session with Dr. Hines first. You will say things in that room you would never say in the room together. That is the point.
03
Then the Same Room
Only after both solo sessions do joint sessions begin. Weekly. Structured. Direct. Dr. Hines names what is happening in real time and does not let the session drift.
04
Ongoing Work
Homework between sessions. Check-ins. Accountability. The work does not stop when the call ends.
Start Here

Couples Clarity Session
— $797.

Every couple starts here. Two Stronghold Assessments — one for each spouse. Two 70-minute solo sessions — Dr. Hines meets each of you alone before you are ever in the same room. A custom written Clarity Plan for the marriage.

WHAT YOU GET
  • Stronghold Assessment for both spouses~45-60 min each
  • Two 70-minute solo Clarity Sessions (one per spouse)virtual, with Dr. Hines
  • Custom written Clarity Plan for the marriagedelivered after both sessions
  • Recommended path forwardprescribed, not guessed
Book the Couples Clarity Session

Or call directly: (918) 212-5330

Coaching engagement is prescribed in the Clarity Session — every couple gets a plan calibrated to their situation, not a fixed menu pulled off a shelf.

What Couples Say

4.9 stars on Google.

★★★★★
"My husband and I had been married for 5 years and have two young children. We reached a point where we just couldn't seem to get on the same page anymore. The constant fighting, frustration, and disconnect made us feel like divorce was the only option. After completing the program, our marriage feels completely renewed. We communicate better, understand each other more deeply, and actually enjoy being together again. It's truly night and day."
Olivia S.
Google Review
★★★★★
"Jonathan is responsible for saving our marriage. He was kind, empathetic and we never felt rushed. Despite our significant cultural differences he made his best efforts to know more about our culture and the importance it played in our marital conflicts."
Ajay J.
Google Review
★★★★★
"Eye opening experience. Jonathan actively listens and cares immensely about you and your marriage. Makes you feel like a friend that you've known for years that has the best advice. You can tell it's not just a job for him."
Johnny T.
Google Review
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This Is Not For You If:
  • Only one of you wants to be here. Both have to want it.
  • You want someone to take your side. Dr. Hines is on the marriage's side.
  • You want to vent without doing homework between sessions.
  • You are looking for permission to leave. This is about choosing to stay.
Ready to Start?

The Clarity Session is where
it actually begins.

Both of you take the Stronghold Assessment before the call. Dr. Hines reviews both. By the time you sit down together, the real conversation is already underway.

Book the Couples Clarity Session Call (918) 212-5330