I've been doing this since 2007. Over 35,000 clinical hours sitting across from men who were losing their marriages, men who had checked out of their own lives, men who couldn't figure out why they kept repeating the same patterns, and men coming out of years of manipulation they didn't have words for.
In almost every case, no one had ever actually named what was going on. They'd been through sessions. They'd done the work. But nobody had sat down and said here is what is actually happening, here is why, and here is the path out. That's what I do.
My job isn't to be your listener. It's to be your diagnostician. I see patterns fast — usually in the first session — and I build a structured plan from there. This is not open-ended, indefinite therapy. It's a defined process with a clear direction.
I keep my client load small intentionally. When you work with me, you get my full attention on your specific situation — not a formula being applied from a distance.
I'm married to Becky. We've been together over 21 years. I have two kids — Emma and Corban. I'm active in our church and I lead a Dad's Life Group. I'm not speaking about marriage and fatherhood from a textbook. I'm speaking from the inside.
Andersonville Theological Seminary
Andersonville Theological Seminary
Andersonville Theological Seminary
Level 1 Certified
National Christian Counselors Association
National Christian Counselors Association
Nutritionist & Weight Management Specialist
In practice since 2007 · Broken Arrow, Oklahoma
Most men who come to me have already tried something. They've read the books, done the sessions, maybe even said the right things to their wife or their family. And nothing changed. That's usually because the presenting problem was being treated instead of the root.
Passivity doesn't look like passivity. It looks like a guy who's busy, who provides, who shows up. But something underneath is missing — a real sense of identity, the ability to lead without apology, the willingness to engage conflict directly instead of avoiding it. Until that's identified and named, nothing else fully works.
The same is true in marriage. Arguments are rarely about what they appear to be about. I look at what's underneath — the patterns, the family systems, the wounds that got carried in. I explain it clearly, we agree on a plan, and we execute it.
This is faith-rooted work. Not religious performance — actual transformation grounded in truth, identity, and the conviction that men are built for more than they've settled for.
Tell me what's going on. I'll tell you what I see. No pressure, no pitch.
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